Day 50: Can You Love Me for Me?

Can you ever love me for me?

for that I am True and Wrong..

Can you love me with my imperfections?

Can you see me as I am and not as what you want me to be?

Can you ever love me for me?
for me that makes so many mistakes and speaks without thinking?

Can you Love me even I am unreasonable?

Can you see me as I am and not Angel that you seek?

Can you ever love me for me?
when i am weak and need your help, need your presence..

Can you love me for me when I am sad without me having a reason to be?

Can you see me as I am not as what I once was?
Can you ever think about me?
when you scuh having great fun, when you laughed..
Can you love me for me???

Can you ever See me?

God Won't Ask- Author Unknown

God won’t ask what kind of car you drove, but will ask how many people you drove who didn’t have transportation.

God won’t ask the square footage of your house, but will ask how many people you welcomed into your home.

God won’t ask about the fancy clothes you had in your closet, but will ask how many of those clothes helped the needy.

God won’t ask about your social status, but will ask what kind of class you displayed.

God won’t ask how many material possessions you had, but will ask if they dictated your life.

God won’t ask what your highest salary was, but will ask if you compromised your character to obtain that salary.

God won’t ask how much overtime you worked, but will ask if you worked overtime for your family and loved ones.

God won’t ask how many promotions you received, but will ask how you promoted others.

God won’t ask what your job title was, but will ask if you reformed your job to the best of your ability.

God won’t ask what you did to help yourself, but will ask what you did to help others.

God won’t ask how many friends you had, but will ask how many people to whom you were a true friend.

God won’t ask what you did to protect your rights, but will ask what you did to protect the rights of others.

God won’t ask in what neighborhood you lived, but will ask how you treated your neighbors.

God won’t ask about the color of your skin, but will ask about the content of your character.

God won’t ask how many times your deeds matched your words, but will ask how many times they didn’t.

God won't ask you how to be loved.. God will ask you to love someone..


I Hate...

I hate when people sitting by and doing nothing but comment on what i'm doing..

I hate when people ask me "What are you doing right now?". It's illogical things for me.

I hate when I have to wait for someone.

I hate the people who pretend to care about you but doing nothing and they really give a shit!

I hate when you say that you hate me

I hate when my friend leave me

I hate when i've no things to write

I hate Mouse

I hate when i got no idea to make you smile

I hate when i get so busy till i don't have time to be with "you"...

I hate when you want me only when you are lonely..

I hate when I wake up in early morning and see u aren't there.. beside me..

I hate when you smile.. you make me fall and never get up.

I hate when "you" looked at me and you don't know what i'm exactly feel

I hate you when you make me love you even more


well it's my life..


"I won't cry"

I see no reason,

I see no rhyme,
Why have I been left behind
alone to serve the sentence of your crime?

I've been put down and pushed around,
often finding myself on the ground.
I've had to push myself deep inside
and build a wall behind which I can hide,
hoping only too survive.

I see no reason,
I see no Rhyme,
Why have I been left behind
alone to serve the sentence of your crime?
Though my heart still beats and my lungs still breath,
I no longer feel alive.
I've sealed my feelings deep inside,

Now I wont scream and I won't cry tonight............

I Won't...

Thx For the Poem Sent by: Alyssa ^^

Do not Cry Alyssa :))

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Love Messages

Love is never easy
it isn't like when you write into a paper
it is memorized in your mind and it won't go like ghost..
you can't write it, rip it, then threw it away..

i just know (hope) this thing..
if somebody is loving someone truly in her/his heart
love will find the way
love isn't future we seek
love isn't past we try to understand
love is simply kiss or hugs even a words "hi"

it isn't going to be happen without passion
but it will not led us into possesion.

but bad news is.. when someone lose it they tend to give up too easily

always reasonable to loving someone
but u can find any reason to forget it
understandable but is it really necessary?

PS for someone: "as long as you are happy, other stuff can be saved for later'
fuck distance.. be here now for her..


What I've Learned

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back

I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.

I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that it's will be six years to learn to stop hating me, 5 years to becoming friend with me and 10 years to learnt to love me

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice and sometimes it's really hard to do.

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.

I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.

I've learned that although the word "love" can have many different meaning, it loses value when overly used.


The Climb-Miley Cyrus Lyrics

I can almost see it
That dream I am dreaming
But there's a voice inside my head saying
"You'll never reach it"

Every step I'm taking
Every move I make feels
Lost with no direction
My faith is shaking

But I gotta keep trying
Gotta keep my head held high

There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb

The struggles I'm facing
The chances I'm taking
Sometimes might knock me down
But no, I'm not breaking

I may not know it
But these are the moments that
I'm gonna remember most, yeah
Just gotta keep going

And I, I got to be strong
Just keep pushing on

'Cause there's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb, yeah!

There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Somebody's gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb, yeah!

Keep on moving, keep climbing
Keep the faith, baby
It's all about, it's all about the climb
Keep the faith, keep your faith..

“Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls “Love is trembling happiness...”
Kahlil Gibran

i don't know how exactly i feel..
feeling rude, feel lonely..
feeling that kills me..

waking up is really hard to do. sleeping is really hard to do too..
just like to hearing you speaking through my mind..
simple things that make it complicated in my life..

benarkah ada kehidupan setelah kematian?
dan benarkah ada cinta setelah kita tidak pernah bertemu?

dalam hidupku aku banyak sekali melakukan kesalahan.
dari hal terkecil hingga hal terbesar.
mencintaimu adalah kesalahan..
namun melepasmu adalah kesalahan terbesar yang sedang aku lakukan sekarang.

i was made to believe that i'd never love somebody else.
but you came showing me another way.
and brought all that my love can bring

pityful.. yes it's pityful
i can't see you clear . you standing right there.. walking away and disappear.

sadness and happiness..
half of my heart get into you..
a real imagination that won't work..

but half of my heart is a part of man,
who never truly loves anything but you..

as if it is really true that there is life after death.. and then we met.. would you let me think that i'm not only dreamer who spent my life into regret?

Yes, It Is..

It's nice to know that you're secured with that someone. That even if the rain is pouring hard and the sky is almost dark, he'll never leave you just so you won't feel alone. Even if his friends had left him (and even if he has to be somewhere else) he'd still stay by your side, just so you won't feel alone.

It's so good to know that you have someone who'll be willing to help you cope up in every frustrations you're having. Every depressing moments, every down moments, every self-worthless-realization moments, he'd be there, not because you want someone to be with you, but because he wants to be with you.
It's great to know when a person appreciates every little thing you do. Even a smile would mean a lot to him, just because you own that smile. And that even if no words are expressed as long as the eyes understand, you'd be able to communicate, just like that.

It's more grateful to know that someone is grateful to have you. We don't choose the people who enter our lives, so it must be luck that you have that person, then you have to be thankful. It may just be coincidence or fate, but whatever the reason is, you have to be thankful in having him the same way he is thankful for having you.

It's a wonderful feeling when you're on the verge of giving up the things you've worked hard for, someone isn't just helping you carry the weight on your shoulders, but he carries it on his own because he'd also be in pain when you are in pain. And then you'll realize, trials would all be worth it as long as you have him, not because he would do things for you, but because you gather all the strength you need, in him and his love.

It's a superb feeling when one is willing to take the risks just so you'll be happy. Unselfishness rule in him just so happiness would take over you.

It's a nice feeling that when you're apart, and days seem to be long, that person misses you. Yes, you might feel bad about not being with each other, but knowing that you feel the same way would drive those blues away, thinking, you'd fight over that feeling because you're looking forward to seeing each other, and that's something to be happy about.
It's a great feeling when he wants to be with you because of the happiness you have when you're together. That even if corny jokes and senseless stories are told, it won't matter as long as you're together.

It's a lovely feeling when someone thinks about your future, with or without him. He cares and he cares enough to think of you and what you'll be someday. But of course, he also wants to be in it someday.
It's a nice feeling when you can be who you really are with that person. No pretentions, no lies, no hypocrisy, because he accepts you for who you are. You can be funny, you can be embarrased, but it won't matter coz it doesn't matter to him. Trust and faith in each other keeps you alive. And it will always do.

It's good to know that you have someone who'll not have the intentions of breaking your heart. Instead, he would be willing to mend it, picking up the broken pieces of your heart that your past love have scattered in the ground. He may not be able to put the pieces back to where they really belong, but you shouldn't mind, because he had repaired that heart of yours, and he fixed it in his own way. He loves you in his own way, not the way your past did. He fixed your heart in a different way, to keep you from feeling the pains of your past heartache and to make you feel, the love, that he's unselfishly giving.
It's a great feeling when that person has every effort to let you feel what he feels for you. Because of the distractions, you may not hear him shout it to the world, but as long as you feel it, his efforts has paid off, big time. And when you feel the same way too... He'd feel as if he's the luckiest person alive.

... when in fact, you're more blessed to have him.


If One day

If one day you feel like crying.. noone hears you..
Call me..
I don't promise that i'll make you laugh
but i can cry with you

If one day you want to run away.
don't be afraid to call me..
I don't promise to ask you to stop
but i can run with you

If one day you won't listen to anyone
call me..
I don't promise to be there for you
but i promise to be very quiet

But if one day you call me
and there is no answer
come fast to see me
perhaps i need you...


The Picture about L-O-V-E

Love is Physical Attraction
Love is a Big Hug

Holding hands

Love is dancing without a music

Love is Fireworks

Love is Family

Love is Friendship

Love is You.. Beautiful

Love is You and Me

Love is no longer you and me.. but

Love is Timeless


Love is Willing to Give or ...

"One is Loved because One is Loved. No reason needed for loving" -Paulo Coelho

I Love this Words from Paulo..

Hari itu hujan dan malam itu aku mengantarkan seorang teman untuk jalan-jalan. Di sisi jalan kami didatangi oleh seorang anak yang meminta uang kepada kami, aku mengeluarkan selembar uang 1000 rupiah dan menyerahkan uang itu ke tangannya yang basah karena kehujanan.

Pulangnya kami lewat jalan yang sama tengah malam dan kami melihat dia sudah berpakaian rapi dan makan di restoran yang terhitung lumayan mahal bagi kantong kami (sebagai mahasiswa)

Temanku mengumpat-umpat namun aku justru menemukan apa arti pemberian itu sebenarnya.. dan cinta...
i would love to say that i learnt much from life..

Apa yang kamu pikir tentang cinta?
is that take and Give?

aku kurang setuju..
sama seperti apa yang terjadi malam itu.
aku memberi anak itu.
tanpa tau dia mau menggunakan untuk apa, untuk siapa dan apakah dia berbohong padamu atau tidak..
bukan karena dia bilang "aku membutuhkanmu"
bukan karena dia menangis padamu
bukan karena kamu mengenalnya.
aku memberinya uang bukan karena suatu alasan.

so i found this similarity..
cinta tidak membuatmu berharap bahwa kamu akan diterima oleh dia
cinta bukan berarti kamu inginkan sesuatu dari dirinya
cinta bukan berarti kamu ingin sesuatu dari dia untuk diubah
but it always end with no reason..

"One is Loved Because One is Loved"


I Want to Be Her Favorite Hello and The Hardest Goodbye

Timeless Don't let it fade out of sight
Just let the moments
sweep us both away
Lifting us to where
We both agre
It's just timeless

It's just timeless

Timeless-Kelly Clarkson

Love isn't the future to seek
love isn't the past that you revealed
Love is a polaroid
Just 2 colours on it
black or white?
Happy or Sad

Yet i know that in this world. it's very hard to find your true love.
my Brother said that the "True Love" is just an imaginary.
yes i don't fully agreed but i just about to know what he mean.

That Love is just imaginary for me.. it's far away and unreach
some people says that "someday you will found your way on love"
I don't think so..

I think Love is love
yeah L-Onelyness
it's V-ertiginous
and E-laborated

The Professor wrote "a woman without her man is nothing" Me: would write "a woman, without her man, is nothing" She would Write "A woman: Without her, man is nothing"
but I believed one thing..
Women and Man are created to complete on each other..
I know my Love..
wherever You are.. No matter How scrubby and umeant i am,
I would left some small memory to her.
And She left me with all of Our memories..

So would you be my greatest hellow and the hardest goodbye?

It Is Always Better to Have Loved on Someone and Lost Than Never to Have Loved At All

There was this guy who believed very much in true love and decided to take his time to wait for his right girl to appear. He believed that there would definitely be someone special out there for him, but none came.
Every year at Christmas, his ex-girlfriend would return from Vancouver to look him up. He was aware that she still held some hope of re-kindling the past romance with him. He did not wish to mislead her in any way. So he would always get one of his girl friends to pose as his steady whenever she came back. That went on for several years and each year, the guy would get a different girl to pose as his romantic interest. So whenever the ex-girlfriend came to visit him, she would be led into believing that it was all over between her and the guy. The girl took all those rather well, often trying to casually tease him about his different girlfriends, or so, as it seemed! In fact, the girl often wept in secret whenever she saw him with another girl, but she was too proud to admit it. Still, every Christmas, she returned, hoping to re-kindle some form of romance. But each time, she returned to Vancouver feeling disappointed.

Finally she decided that she could not play that game any longer. Therefore, she confronted him and professed that after all those years, he was still the only man that she had ever loved. Although the guy knew of her feelings for him, he was still taken back and have never expected her to react that way. He always thought that she would slowly forget about him over time and come to terms that it was all over between them. Although he was touched by her undying love for him and wanted so much to accept her again, he remembered why he rejected her in the first place-she was not the one he wanted. So he hardened his heart and turned her down cruelly. Since then, three years have passed and the girl never return anymore. They never even wrote to each other. The guy went on with his life..... still searching for the one but somehow deep inside him, he missed the girl.

On the Christmas of 1995, he went to his friend's party alone. "Hey, how come all alone this year? Where are all your girlfriends? What happened to that Vancouver babe who joins you every Christmas?", asked one of his friend. He felt warm and comforted by his friend's queries about her, still he just surged on.
Then, he came upon one of his many girlfriends whom he once requested to pose as his steady. He wanted so much to ignore her ..... not that he was impolite, but because at that moment, he just didn't feel comfortable with those girlfriends anymore. It was almost like he was being judged by them. The girl saw him and shouted across the floor for him. Unable to avoid her, he went up to acknowledge her.

" are you? Enjoying the party?" the girl asked.

"Sure.....yeah!", he replied.
She was slightly tipsy..... must be from the whiskey on her hand. She continued,
"Why...? Don't you need someone to pose as your girlfriend this year?" Then he answered, "No, there is no need for that anymore......"
Before he can continue, he was interrupted, "Oh yes! Must have found a girlfriend! You haven't been searching for one for the past years, right?" The man looked up, as if he has struck gold, his face beamed and looked directly at the drunken girl. He replied, " are right! I haven't been looking for anyone for the past years."
With that, the man darted across the floor and out the door, leaving the lady in much bewilderment. He finally realized that he has already found his dream girl, and she was.....the Vancouver girl all along! The drunken lady has said something that awoken him.

All along he has found his girl. That was why he did not bother to look further when he realized she was not coming back. It was not any specific girl he was seeking! It was perfection that he wanted, and yes.....perfection!!
Relationship is something both parties should work on. Realizing that he had let away someone so important in his life, he decided to call her immediately. His whole mind was flooded with fear. He was afraid that she might have found someone new or no longer had the same feelings anymore..... For once, he felt the fear of losing someone.

As it was Christmas eve, the man was quite hard to get through, especially an overseas call. He tried again and again, never giving up. Finally, he got through......precisely at 12.00 midnight. He confessed his love for her and the girl was moved to tears. It seemed that she never got over him! Even after so long, she was still waiting for him, never giving up.

He was so excited to meet her and to begin his new chapter of their lives. He decided to fly to Vancouver to join her. It was the happiest time of their lives! But their happy time was short-lived. Two days before he was supposed to fly to Vancouver, he received a call from her father. She had a head-on car collision with a drunken driver. She passed away after 6 hours in a coma.
The guy was devastated, as it was a complete loss. Why did fate played such cruel games with him? He cursed the heaven for taking her away from him, denying even one last look at her! How cruel he cursed! How he damned the Gods...!! How he hated himself....for taking so long to realize his mistake!! That was in 1996.

The moral of this story is :
Treasure what you have...
Time is too slow for those who wait;
Too swift for those who fear;
Too long for those who grief;
Too short for those who rejoice;
But for those who love...
Time is Eternity.

For all you out there with someone special in your heart, cherish that person, cherish every moment that you spend together that special someone, for in life, anything can happen anytime. You may painfully regret, only to realise that it is too late.. Just Like ME.


my Fam's

Akhirnya saya bisa melupakan wanita yang saya benar-benar sayang. Fiuh... Dia tidak pernah mencintai saya, bahkan mungkin tidak ingin saya ada di kehidupannya. Namun saya teramat mencintainya.

Hal yang membuatku agak melupakan saat bersamanya ialah karena faktor keluarga saya yang sangat mendukung apapun langkah saya.

Menyenangkan dan melegakan, harus kuakui tidak ada yang lebih menyenangkan mempunyai keluarga “gila’ seperti ini. Ayah saya tergolong orang yang sangat menyenangkan, selalu menyenangkan saat dia berpura-pura berbisik kepadamu namun ternyata tangannya menggelitik perutku. Dia selalu membuatku tertawa sewaktu dia menari dangdut, atau mengatakan lelucon kecil tentang keluarga dan dunia ini kepadaku.

Dia dulu seorang perokok dan pemabuk, namun sekarang dia begitu taat di gereja dan beribadah. Benar-benar membanggakan punya ayah sepertinya.

Adik lelaki saya? Seorang playboy dan pemain basketball. Sering juara dan saya sendiri menikmati masa kecil bersama dengan kenakalan-kenakalan dan perbagai hal menyenangkan. Saya masih ingat ketika dia bermain layang-layang bersama saya, dikurung di luar rumah karena pernah bermain sampai malam, bersepeda dan terjatuh bersama. Penakut. Hahaha. Bahkan dia, sampai saat ini masih sering mengajak saya atau pembantu saya untuk menenaminya ke kamar mandi.

Saya juga memilik adik perempuan sekarang. Yah meskipun dia tidak tergabung dalam keluarga kandung saya, namun saya menyayanginya seperti adik saya sendiri. Terkadang saya tertawa melihat ulahnya. Centil, usil dan jail, namun terkadang baik hati. Punya koleksi kutek, dan gelang segudang. Dia sangat menyukai lagu dari Ridho Irama dan kadang saya tertawa melihat dia menyanyikan lagu itu. Hahaha. What a great moment! Hal yang sangat menggelikan ialah jika ia belajar. Saya selalu menemaninya belajar. Sewaktu belajar IPS, saya pernah menanyakan tentang apa ciri kebudayaan Minang diliat dari rumah adat dan profesi mereka.

Seharusnya jawabannya: punya rumah Gadang, dan profesinya Bertani dan berdagang.

Namun dia malah jawab, Rumah adatnya Rumah Tani dan begadang. Hahahaha.

Namun saya paling sayang dengan Ibu saya. Ya, saya anak mami! Banyak orang yang bilang saya begitu, namun anehnya saya malah senang. Ibu saya sendiri ialah orang yang sangat menghibur, yah, meskipun terkadang agak bawel, namun aku mengerti bahwa dia selalu menginginkan yang terbaik untukku. Kejadian mengerikan menimpa Ibu saya kemarin. Dia terkena serangan jantung dan harus dilarikan ke rumah sakit, persis sebelum hari ulang tahunnya ke 50. Tekanan darahnya terus turun dari 130/80, 110,70, hingga sampai 60/40. Hanya satu kalimat yang kubisikkan ke telinganya, “Jangan tinggal aku dulu, tunggu hingga aku dapat memberi cucu untukmu”. Mama saya seolah bangkit melawan penyakit itu, bahkan dia tidak perlu masuk ICU.

Mama saya sudah sehat sekarang. Thank’s God.

Untuk Mama tersayang, Happy Birthday Mom.

Menyenangkan mempunyai keluarga seperti kalian.


Alasan Kenapa Cowok Berselingkuh

Halooooo, lama ta berjumpa, kini super Gil akan membeberkan rahasia tentang perselingkuhan setajam-tajamnya, sperti Silet.. (nada ngomong Feni Rose). Oke dimuali dari kasus 1 dan berujung pada kasus ke 7.. Enjoy!
  1. Cewek yang suka mengekang si Cowok.

Cewek selalu memaksa si cowok keluar dari zona nyaman dan kebiasaan mereka. Contohnya:

Ce : Honey, anterin aku pergi ke pesta dong!

Co: Sambil menonton televisi *diam*

Ce: ARRRGGHHH.. cepetttt. *mematikan televisi*

Co: Yah mulai lagi.. kembaliin dong remotenya!

PLETAK *Kepala si co Benjol*

  1. Cewek Yang Lebih Dominan

Seringkali saya melihat si cowok membawakan tas atau belanjaan si cowok. Sewaktu si cewek bertemu temannya, si cowok mulai diacuhkan. Si cowok selalu di belakang si cewek.

Sewaktu masuk ke mobil, si cowok mengelap sandaran tempat duduk sambil berkata, “silahkan..”

  1. Cewek Penggosip

Si cewek mulai ngobrol masalah ini itu, dari gosip kalangan RT sampai gosip internasional.

Istri 1: Eh, tau ga Linda, Janda yang tinggal di rumah baru. Ada yang bilang kalo suaminya meninggal waktu muda. Kecelakaan. Katanya si suaminya dapet penghargaan dari negara.

Istri 2: Ah, masa sih? Kok Aye ga tau?

Istri 3: Setauku itu rumah yang dikasi sama simpanannya dia.

Istri 1,2 : Masa sih?

Istri 4 menimpali: Bukan, dia suka pake baju sexy biar dilirik ma Cowok-cowok

Istri 1,2,3: IH, Kita harus dandan yang cantik biar suami kita ga direbut.

Istri 4: Iya pokonya jangan mau kalah Jeng

Dihadapan cewek. Hero bisa jadi Zero! Dalam sekejap, citra istri pahlawan bisa jadi istri simpanan! Hahahah.

  1. Cewek Yang Berubah-ubah Sikap, kalo marah Brutal

Liat kasus di nomer 1.

Sewaktu di Mobil

Cowok: Jangan Marah dong. Gitu aja kok marah sich?

Cewek: *diem sesaat*

Cowok: Jawab dong..


Cowok: iya... iya.. aku salah aku minta maaf deh.


Cowok: Nasi sudah menjadi bubur maksudnya? *sotoy*

Cewek: BISA DIEM GA????? KEPALAKU TU PUSING. AKU GAG MARAH TAUUUUUU!!! *Berubah menjadi Super Saiya III*

Cowok: Okey2. *merinding* Trus sekarang jadi pergi ke pesta temenmu kan? Di gedung mana?

Cewek: UDAH GA MOOD. Anterin aku pulang! Aku mau nonton Televisi aja di rumah.

Cowok: *menjambak rambutnya sendiri, ngelus dada* ... hening

Si cowok dijamin mati muda ngadepin tipe cewek kaya gini.

  1. Selalu Memperdebatkan Masalah Sepele, Cemburuan, Posesif

Sudah umum jika hanya gara-gara siklus bulanan (menstruasi) bisa bikin cowoknya frustasi. Gimana enggak, kalo semisal gini.

Co: *ngeliat ke cewek lain*

Ce: *ngeliat ke cowoknya*

Co: *senyum sambil cengar-cengir ke ceweknya*

Ce: *senyum ketus ke cowoknya*, sambil bilang, “Aku pulang naik taksi”

Nyadar ga si cewek kalo kadang kita tu ga pernah macem-macem sebenernya ma cewek laen, keadaan dari 1-7 di sinilah yang membuat cowok selingkuh.

  1. ADA TANTANGAN LAIN, dasar emang si cowoknya ga setia.

Jujur aja deh, apa yang ada di pikiran cowok? APA YANG COWOK CARI DI HIDUPNYA PADA MASA MUDANYA? Tantangan!

Jika dia sudah mendapat pacar yang cantik, kaya raya, punya temen banyak apa si cowok bahagia, BELUM TENTU! Kadang si cowok malah bisa ngelirik cewek lain, hanya untuk perasaan dag dig dug sewaktu nembak.

Faktor lain orang selingkuh mungkin juga, karena si cowok emang buaya, ada kesempatan, mengapa tidak cari tantangan lain, toh ada juga orang yang justru suka bagian waktu umpet-umpetan sama pacarnya. Hahaha.

  1. Karena ada cewe lain yang lebih cantik dan pintar (liat alasan ce dr 1-5)

notes dari seorang pengusaha Bob Sadino: "Selingkuh itu indah"

Btw, Aku blm pernah selingkuh, pengen nyoba, tapi siapa juga yang mau diselingkuhin.

Hujan Membawa Bayangmu Pergi

Maukah kamu jadi kekasihku??


Laki-laki itu bingung, baru saja ia melakukan kesalahan. Benarkah itu kejujuran, atau apakah diam berarti "iya" untuk pertanyaannya?
Lelaki itu menggaruk kepalanya, menunggu memang sebuah pekerjaan yang membosankan, apapun itu, perempuan itu muram.
Mungkin tidak tahu apa yang bisa diucapkan demi menutupi perasaannya sendiri, takut, gelisah dan juga kasihan.

5 menit berlalu tanpa jawaban..

"Okey, aku hanya bercanda,ini April Mop, ingat?" Sang lelaki tertawa

Lega.. si perempuan hanya tersenyum sambil berkata... "Kau menyebalkan!"

Dalam hati, si pria berkata, “Aku menyebalkan, karenamu. Aku sebal karena tidak berkata saja yang sejujurnya di hari ini”.


Perempuan itu menghela napas, masih terlihat wajahnya yang elok.

Lelaki itu bersamaan dengan itu berkata, “ummm, soal yang kemarin itu, maafkan aku ya? Aku tidak bermaksud membuatmu jengkel, lagipula mana mungkin aku jatuh cinta padamu? Kamu bukan tipeku”

Perempuan itu tertawa, sambil berkata, “Kalau aku mati hanya karena sakit jantung apa yang kamu lakukan?”

Laki-laki itu hanya menggumam “… entah harus sedih atau senang kalau engkau mati”

Oya, dasar!, tapi memang kemarin aku sudah berpikir, apakah engkau yang tidak bias serius ini mampu mengatakan hal seperti itu pada seorang wanita?”

Tentu saja, jika hal ini tentangmu aku rela berkata apa saja” Kata pria itu, tetapi ia memilih menjawab “Padahal aku ingin membuatmu takluk dihadapanku, aku ingin kamu berkata YA, kemudian aku akan tertawa terbahak-bahak melihat wajah polosmu itu.”

Itu tidak akan terjadi” Perempuan itu tertawa.

MENGAPA TIDAK?” tetapi sang lelaki memilih untuk diam. Menghela napas panjang.

Ya, itu tidak mungkin terjadi, lagian, kamu manja, galak, ga cantik, ga cocok untuk aku yang ganteng ini.”

Aku telah banyak berbohong hari ini

Hahahah, ganteng???”

Iya, aku kan memang terlahir ganteng”

NO…. kalau kamu ganteng, maka semua pria di dunia ini super ganteng”

Tapi tetap saja ganteng kan?”

Ayolah aku tidak ingin berdebat pada hal tidak penting ini.

Iya-ya, kamu ganteeenngg banget. Tapi kumel”

Hahahaha” Lelaki itu tertawa kecut

Hujan nich, sudah dulu yah, Bye”

Perlu aku antar?”

Tidak perlu, thank’s” Perempuan itu menyetop taksi, masuk ke dalam. “Kamu hati-hati ya?’

Belum sampai sang lelaki menyahut, sang Perempuan telah menghilang di balik hujan.


Lelaki itu terlelap, masih terbayang bagaimana dia menyangkal bahwa dia sangat menyayangi perempuan itu,

Namun ada sesuatu hal yang tidak sempat dia bilang.

Dia menulis sesuatu:

Selalu, aku rasa,

kita akan bercakap dalam senyap

Dengan bahasa langit yang hanya kita yang tahu

serta menyemai setiap harap yang kerap datang mengendap

lalu meresapinya ke hati dengan getir

Selalu, aku rasa,

kamu tersenyum disana, ketika akupun tersenyum disini

dan kita, dengan bahasa langit yang kita punya itu,

secara bersahaja, menyapa larik-larik kenangan

dan meniti setiap selasar waktu

bersama desir rindu menoreh kalbu

Selalu, aku rasa,

kita tak dapat menafikan

batas yang membentang

dimana jarak membingkainya lalu menjadikannya nyata

serta membuat kita sadar

bahwa pada akhirnya,

dalam pilu aku berkata:

“Percayalah, aku ada dinadimu seperti kamu ada didarahku,”bisikku pelan..

ketika bayangmu, perlahan memudar dibalik rinai hujan..”



"I wish to wish the wish you want to wish, but if you wish the wish the witch wishes, I won’t wish the wish you wish to wish.”

Mungkin kalian pernah dengar tentang tongue twister. Nah buat yang jarang baca buku, pasti blum tau artinya kan? Tongue twister adalah kata-kata yang sulit diutarakan,
Baik karena keselip di lidah atau kemampuan verbal (biasanya si pronunciation) yang kurang dari seseorang.

Pertanyaannya: trus ngapain kita harus ngelatih lidah kita dengan kalimat-kalimat “tongue twister” yang sangat sulit?

Ja-Wa -baN: BIAR LU GA MALU-MALUIN. Gue kenal 2 orang dekat yang sangat “menghibur” sewaktu mereka mengucapkan kata-kata yang sulit. Yang pertama adalah my papi . Contoh paling nyata, sewaktu gw bli hape. Dan kamu jadi ribut gara-gara kekonyolan papiku.

Papi: Kamu bli hape apa?

Ganteng: Beli hape “blackberry-blackberryan” dar China

Papi: Oh, itu CDMA apa BMX? (Oh, itu CDMA pa GSM?, mengherankan bagaimana GSM bisa jadi sepeda, masi wajar...)

Ganteng: GSM maksudnya? Hahahahah, papi tuh.. bukan Bmx tp GSM! Hahahhah.

Papi: Apik ya? Merek e apa td Stroberry?( Bagus ya? Mereknya apa tadi ,blackberry? Sudah mulai off topic...)

G: Ya amplop! (sambil membenamkan tangan ke kepala), Blackberry pi! Bukan strobery, itu mah buah. Yang ini mah canggih sim cardnya aja bisa dua.

P: Ohhh, hahahha. Papi ra mudeng masalah gitu an. Boleh pinjem buat telepon dong, kan...apa namanya td? Kart sim, eh bukan ding, karcisnya kan dua. Kartunya apa? Merpati? (sim card ->>> karcis, Mentari->>> Merpati) , OMG!!!!!!!!!!

Orang kedua yang parah adalah adek cewe gue yang masi klas 1 smp, si E (gw sembunyiin identitasnya, nti dia marah, dan aku ga pengen itu terjadi, karena kalo dia marah, dia berubah jd demit yang makan bulan dan alam semesta,dunia berubah jadi kiamat).

E: ko, lagunya user yang bagus apa?
G: ???????????
Dia dengan brutalnya.. memanggil Usher (pengucapan asyer) dengan Puser tanpa p, (pengucapan user)

Pernah juga dia sulit mengucap profesional->>>> persifional, presisional, prefisional!
Ampe salah 3 kali pula.

Inilah mengapa terasa penting belajar bahasa Inggris usia dini. Hihihihi.
Ato scene laennya.. gue disuru ngisi kuesioner yang berhadiah printer ama adek gw yg laen:
Si E nyeletuk
“YEEEEE, koko ngisi kuis milioner...
Ntar aku dikasi ya ko kalo menang?”

Serumah ngakak.

My favorite’s tongue twister:
“Mary mac’s mother’s making Mary Mac marry me.
My mother’s making me marry Mary Mac
Will i always be so merry when Mary’s taking care of me?
Will i always be so merry when i marry Marry Mac?”
From a song by Carbon Leaf

What about you? Have ever experienced with the stupid conversation like me?

The Woman I Called Sister

PIC Source:

To be apart of my sister like mine
Is so divine,
Where love is shown
Hurt is shared, our love for each other is never impaired

“We talk..
We laugh
We cry..
But we are a family and we do it all together
For I as a family we do it as one..”

You are a joy that can’t be taken away
Once you enter my life, you are there to stay..
A friend who helps through difficult times
Your comforting words are worth much more than dimes
A partner who fills my life with laughs and smiles..
These memories last for miles and miles.

My sis’ is a blessing, who fills my heart with love

She flies with me in life with the beauty of dove.
Whether I am having my ups and downs,

Again.. you always help me with a smile and never frown

With a sister you cannot have a grudge, She is as sweet as chocolate and as smooth as fudge.

Having friend is not just a trend.
It is knowing you can always turn to her,
your best friend…

Dedicated to my sisters..
Happy, Melia, Yosie, Elin..

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